snowmm,

honestly (i don't know how long your H has been gone)what difference does it make if you make him mad at this point. If you said what you meant and meant what you said, that is all that should be important to you.

i guess with me, I am to the point that I am so tired of trying to say the right thing or afraid to say the wrong thing. when really nothing I do or say really matters or makes a difference with H.

shouldn't the most important thing be doing what is right for US not them.

hang in there...
TOH


M41
H42
D17
Adopted N14
M22 T24
"Bomb" 4/07
Sep 8/07
Admitted OW 11/07(only to me)
OW back 12/4/07
PA on off thru 7/08
says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08
D final 7/09
Moving on and up!!