Well, I think after a few months of this "new life" he's creating for himself he may need more than commitment, he may be need to be commited...to an institution of some type! Whew, I know that's where I'd be heading if I thought screwing around with my W's good friend was in some way a healthy, rational choice. Give us a break fish, you are way out of control and now, just to prove me right, you're going off to "celebrate" this insanity, go figure.