Yes being the H. I can see how I do have questions but luckily I think like you that my W would probably like to for get about it. (That is if she stopped calling him. I don't know I have not checked).But I have heard what you are saying more than once.
BUT... I have come to the conclusion that if we do not work things out then the OM IS fair game... in more ways than one...
But until that time it is an unspoken known between the three of us.....
DrLOve
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know