She told me that reading the book and examples in it reminded her of all the things I did not do in our M. Reading the book or how it was written was not he problem. Examples in the book just stirred up more old pain for her. She's not mad that I am reading or trying, she's upset that it took her filing for divorce to get me to really see and notice that I needed to do something. She wanted MC 2 years ago and let pride and stubbornness get in my way. I understand why she's angry. Question is, can she truly forgive me and move forward?