Well tonight went well at the ballfield. I was very upbeat around W, in fact she, myself and 3 other parents got on the subject about having children and the labor time that each of the women went through. We talked about how our two boys were born and how we came up with there names. My wife jokingly was telling these other parents about how she told me she thought she was going into labor with our 2nd son and I didn't believe her and left the house to go to work and she had to call me 20 minutes later to tell me to come home that it was time. "The reason I didn't believe her is because we had many false alarms with first son and I just believed this to be one of them." One of the funny things to this conversation is she told me about two weeks ago that I was never there for her when she needed me, and she brought this episode up as being one of the times, at least she was laughing about it tonight while telling the other parents. We talked about how it was in the delivery room and how beautiful of boys that we have. It was great tonight.

I left about 15 minutes early, trying to be a little suspicious.

I don't know if I did the right thing or not here but my youngest son wanted me to carry him to the store and get him some candy, so I carried him, I picked my W up a KitKat bar, this is her favorite. Is this considered persuing, I don't think she took it that way, but she has also said over the last 4 months that I didn't know what her likes were. She told me thank you and told our youngest son that KitKat's were her favorite. I guess shortly after we S, I went to Burger King to bring some dinner to the house, I brought her a Whopper, not thinking as I couldn't think clearly at the time, her favorite is a bacon double cheeseburger, she made it clear to me that night, "see, you don't even know what I like." I know she always ordered this but my mind wouldn't let me think on this particular night and I got to hear about how I don't even know her.

Thanks Christa and GD for checking in on me.


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