You'll need it because you're not carrying one new skill or behavior into this new "relationship". And the other party has baggage of her own you just haven't seen. It's a guarantee. Oh yes, that's a guaranteed shocker when HER mask comes off. If it were not so, she wouldn't be hooking up with her friend's husband.
So yep.
Your going to need all the luck you can get.
AmyC
No luck needed he's got commitment on his side.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa