Originally Posted By: kat727
Karen, I have just been reading your thread and it seems you have it so much more together than I did when my H left. With my H there was no discussion, just gone. He still has alot of his stuff here...either he doen't care about it or left it here to torture me.
Good for you on the job. It looks like you are really on the right track to getting a more fulfilling life for YOU!
kat


Thanks, kat! That is tough that your H didn't discuss it with you! My H did let me know he would be moving out and I thought he would probably for several months before he did, and acted so horribly to me, that it was kind of a relief when he moved out! :)I helped him pack up & move out. He was so shocked that I was so OK with moving out that he said something like my Prozac really works great, but I think most of it was just relief that his torturing me with texting OW, spending nights & weekends with her, yelling at me, etc. was over. (Well, it has been except for the yelling, and I am determined not to put up with that anymore too!)

My H has also left a lot of stuff here, winter clothes & other stuff. Said he will move it out eventually (apparently when he and OW get a place big enough for the kids or whatever and prob. her divorce is final.) I am ready for it all to be gone and shoved most of it in one hall closet so I wouldn't have to look at it!

Yes, I have really worked hard on myself so either I will have a healthier marriage if H ever came to his senses or a healthy relationship with someone else I guess if not! I also think AD's and my weekly meeting with a C have helped too!!! \:\) Karen

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