germ04,

Ive wondered too if mine will come back. She turned into someone else...someone with no heart. My ex has taken huge steps to correct her life but shes too wrapped up trying to fix "something" she doesnt see me anymore.

All we can do is try to find a place where we can take care of ourselves but still love them. Continue to be the best you can be. Keep improving you. Thats all anyone and God asks for. We have NO control over them and the more we try the more we lose. You can let go of her without turning your back. Be an example..someone she WOULD want back. That way if she still walks away YOU will be in a far better place than ever before. I know how hard it is..believe me. I still struggle but really do we have any other choice. Ive been put through the ringer for 5 years. Im not out of the fire but Im looking forward to seeing the finished product.

Hang in there,
Bill


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Me 35
w 42
4 sk 12-21
our s10
m10
t14
'02 ILUBNILWY
12/24/05 pa
02/07 pa
separated 1/07-3/07
asked 4 D 3/07