I was even more incensed that W had been instilling fear into S7 that his father was endangering his life
This makes me so mad that she talked to S7 about it. A *mature* person would have talked to you about it, in private, leaving out the kids. That's horrible, because now you have to backpedal and have the "You know, I would never do anything to put you in danger talk" with S7. Something he should never have to doubt!!!
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She told me the IDLYAM (I don't love you any more) the day before Father's Day
I can top you. On Father's Day, I heard "I think I actually hate you". Please tell me your W would not file on your anniversary. What has taken this woman over? It saddens me.
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I am now thinking it will be a blessing in disguise to no longer have her in my life on a daily basis.
In your case, and mine, this is very true. Probably like me, you are so much more at peace without the daily reminders that we are horrible people. Plus, I have really blossomed as a Mommy since finding freedom/peace with H gone. We are learning through ourselves that we are good people, people that can rely on themselves to be happy and at peace. Trustsworty, committed people.
