Well here's another update after our MC session today. My wife is very angry and has a right to be, due to the way I have handled things during our marriage. She has all this anger bottled up inside her and has never truly forgiven me and does not know if she can. She has agreed to go back to counseling next week and the MC gave us a homework assignment. We are both to write letters describing in detail what each of us is angry about. The books DB and DR were brought up during our session. The MC knows of the books and talked some about both people being able to make personal changes that would make the M better and maybe get us back to a good place as H&W. TO ALL OF YOU OUT THERE THINKING OF GETTING YOUR SPOUSE TO READ EITHER BOOK AT THE VERY BEGINNING OF YOUR TROUBLES...DON'T DO IT. I had talked my wife into reading a bit of DB early on, which she did. I ended up asking her if she read any of it and she just sort of brushed my question off, in C tonight she told me she read some of it and it pissed her off..not the book or writing itself but that it made her that much more pissed at me..I was to dumb to do even the simplest thing to make our marriage better. I took her for granted and look where I am now..D papers hanging over my head, lonely as hell, on the brink of losing everything I have. Hopefully the C is working and the things I have changed so far have helped my sitch.
If any of you would or could I would appreciate you praying for me.
