Yep, I thought about that too and wrote on my white board at work that on March 31, I did a 180. But it hurts. It's so against me. But I have to tell you I'm feel like I'm sinking. On Easter one of my brother's had a heart attack. He's doing okay - I guess but it got to me. The same a day a friend of the family died. They put a feeding tube in my mom five weeks ago and today my dad tells me they have found cancer in her system. I have a co-worker at work causing problems for a lot of us...I'm wondering if he's having a MLC. We're declaring bankruptcy. Ummm, on and yeah, my H is going through his MLC!!! I'm sure that a lot of my comments to my husband are reactive to what's going on in our lives. I want to have control somewhere and setting boundaries was the place. Just hope I can stick to my boundaries.
