And this the exact beliefs that brought me here. If I could get my H to attend MC, I wouldn't be here at all. Right now we'd be working through some homework while preparing for our next session with our fantastic counselor who is supporting us as we discover intimacy in our R. But that isn't an option in my M. Not right now, anyway. So, this site, (and DR/DB)I am hoping, will provide me with some new ways of looking at this situation. I want to avoid the cheeseless tunnels and begin brainstorming ideas that might work. I KNOW that C could work for us, with the right C, H doesn't. And he's not even receptive to having a conversation about it. Again, H and I are working toward the same goal, we're just working in different ways. I think my way is guaranteed to work, he thinks his way is guaranteed to work. I feel like I'm being proactive, so does he. I'm not seeing changes quickly enough...he's probably seeing things change at just the right pace. So, here I am...
