I'm actually not afraid he would divorce you. I'm afraid that eventually, you will divorce him.
But again...I trust you know your H and your sitch well enough to know that you are taking the best possible route for yourself at this time. I just really freak out when I hear that anyone thinks a relationship can "fix itself" as I know from experience that only naivety causes this thought. You may even call it ignorance - we are ignorant of the fact that relationships (specifically marriages) are not like other things in life that can be fixed with mind over matter and prayer alone. I too fix most of my problems in exactly that way - - but marriage and relationships are so much different.
As in a business relationship, if you are partners with someone else and you are finding yourself at odds with your partner and you do not agree on things, you seek the counsel of your peers, elders, or lawyers. If you tried to just assume the business partnership would fix itself with prayer only, but the other partner is not praying for the same outcome that you are, then you can't expect God to go against your partner's true wishes just to meet yours. I hope that makes any sense...
I am sorry, I'm not preaching to you and again, I trust you know your sitch best and are doing your best.
