Originally Posted By: Doing_My_Best

What does this mean exactly?


It means that if he left her, she would tell me about their affair.

Ye, we a separating for sure. That was his decision. He is blazing forward and not looking back. He is still at home but sleeping on the couch. We need to get a second car, tell the kids, and sort out a few other things. I think he just wants me to deal with it all and then he'll just walk out the door and be free.

Last edited by stillbreathing; 04/02/08 11:13 PM.

Me BS 30
Him WH 32
Kids 9, 4 and 2
Together 12 years
DDAY#1 9/30/05 False reconciliation
DDAY #2 3/13/08 blindsided

Separating and heartbroken