I'm really sad and alarmed to hear that you husband thinks that the relationship can "fix itself on its own" and that MC would not be helpful to you two.
PLEASE....I am divorced, and I had exactly the above attitude. See where it got me? DIVORCED.
I was naive to think that a relationship can fix itself on its own. This is absolutely not true. Couples need help in fixing their problems.
Please do whatever you can, find research about this and print it off for him, or whatever...to at the very least convince him that MC can and does help. I'm not saying it fixes all problems or that you may not still end up divorced if you go to MC. But I can almost guarantee that you will end up D'd if you don't at least try. There are situations within a relationship that the two people who GOT THEM INTO that situation cannot fix themselves. That old saying "you can't fix the problem with the same type of thinking that created the problem" holds true here.
Please don't let your husband think this can fix itself.
