H just here we had a few words Not the best DBing on my part I asked him to limit s6 video time as s6 sees H visit as an open ticket to play video H said I was CONTROLLING as first i said sorry you fel that way then a few more words came out mostly about kids told him some truths I said D 12 is seeing C tomorrow at her request to talk about this emptiness(abandonment she feels b/c of H leaving)
he thinks I put her up to seeing C b/c I AM CONTROLLING
he said I havent abandoned her, I visit just like other Husbands do(his words) I said you are not like other H..you left Other H come home and live with their kids he said other wives ARENT SO CONTROLLING I said Our kids dont have a real dad-you left I know..i said a lot 2X4 again 2 weeks in a row! and Ive done so well for this year keeping mouth shut its all true and he is in some kind of fantasy he really doesnt think he did anything wrong and its all my fault b/c im controlling anyway, he will be back soon with kids and I wont say anything more but next week I may ask him a few qestions about his thoughts and plans peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
