Supermom and the Brighter Tomorrow

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Jenny,
I agree with your L. I think I even suggested that in my post last night. He IS being a bully. Let him throw his tantrum. Basically, I look at it this way: if you give in and give him what he wants, knowing it's NOT what you want or right, for that matter, HE gets what he wants and you get hurt. If you stand your ground, you at least have a chance at getting what is the best solution. And, if H is pissed off, too F'ING BAD!!! He'll get over it. You have every right to stand up for what you believe whether he likes it or not. Good for you. I don't understand why they think they can run off, hurt people that love them and have everything work out the way THEY want. Don't fret, one day he'll realize what an a$$ he's been and how much he hurt you. I promise you this. Just like I know one day my H will also. I just don't have a clue as to when that day may be.