Originally Posted By: neecy22
BUT - and this is a big but, I always am thinking about it,


What exactly are you always thinking about?

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and my problem at this point is H's direct statment not to even try


???

What would you need to see from H in order to know and/or feel that he IS trying?

Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell