People who want the commitment to staying M before they'll try to piece aren't going to get very far. (Unfortunately, lots of LBSs look for this sort of thing as soon as the WAS begins to question whether they should leave after all.) Kind of like refusing to go on a first date unless one gets a promise of going steady later on. I sure wouldn't go on the first date if someone wanted me to accept a promise ring first.
See OT, I knew you were the "wise one". This is so true. never really thought of it that way. I also agree with CL. I think my sitch is more like what he said.
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And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know