Help me act AS IF, Thread 4

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He won't change his mind with dividing up your lives. It will take much longer than that. Our egos kill us. We do deserve more. Generally they are capable of more, but they really aren't right now. Just like it takes us time to come to grips with the situation, it takes them.

Work on yourself. Detach. Worry about yourself and how you can make this as smooth as possible for your children. Parent them and baby yourself. Him? He's last on the list.