Been reading your sitch. I know how hard it can be. How hurtful it can be. I can only imagine how much worse it is for you with the kids. (we have none) Good luck with your son's surgery. Patience is waiting. Not passively waiting, that is lazyness. But to keep going when the going is hard and slow... that is patience.
Me: 35 WAW: 28 Bomb: 1/13/08 S: 1/14/08 D filed: 2/24/08 D final on 7/07/08
Do your damndest in an ostentatious manner all the time. -George S. Patton
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