No worries Husband, at all. I figured you were just feeling a bit defensive, perfectly normal. One of the very most important things I learned from DBing is that when people get reactive with you, it is pretty much always about themselves and their own issues, not about you. So, like I said, no worries at all.
But, about the "wise" crack, I'm not so sure at all about that I'm not so much wise and just on the other side, from which one has a much more objective perspective.