Me thinks you have come so far in just a few weeks. I am absolutely convinced that changing your approach is critical to your sitch!!!!

I went back through some of your posts today and am amazed at the difference in your verbiage and attitude! Early on you seemed so dedicated to the thoughts that H was the key to all of your change, and through some perspective it seems as though you now feel that your attitude and approach can influence him.

I am so excited for you... maybe time to get busy again! LOL.

Me: 33 jacka** whom lied, stole, cheated, and basically treated DW like crap for years
DW: 29 kind soul who gave too much to me over the relationship

S7
S4

M: 7yrs
Bomb: 10/19
Seperated: 10/24

The worst reconciliation is better than the best divorce