That is good advice. But it just so hard to not ask her to do these things. It's things I think she would enjoy. But you are right. It doesn't matter if she wants to do them, she doesn't want to do them with me.
We seem to be in the same situation. My W is talking to an out of town OM. And she is renting her own place. We have two kids and have been married for 11 1/2 years. i am going to look up your sitch and see how you are handling things.
