Looks like the moderators and some board members are hitting you pretty hard with the "buy now" message. E.g.
Originally Posted By: DanceQueen
I suggest you start by calling one of the coaches here on this site.
Originally Posted By: sgctxok
Dance Queen has given you wonderful advice. My concern is with your counselor. If she starts pushing you leaving, leave her.
Originally Posted By: sgctxok
Would you be willing to try to work with Dotty or Joann? You can see some of Dotty's work online here.
I'm sure the DB coaches are well-qualified and all that. But they don't give free advice. Of course, some free advice is worth what you pay for, and some can be pretty good. I know there are some great web-based communities that give some pretty good advice. I've heard some people talk favorably about marriagebuilders.com and I know that there are some great folks over on EDITED--ADVERTISING IS NOT ALLOWED Hairdog