WAW...now the LBS Part 2

[HOPEFULinCALI]

yeah i kind of felt like I just said to much and some things just left better unsaid. With her saying little, I just listened to myself talk. Kind of like "and another thing"..not a royal backslide, feels like status is the same. I guess we all know how that goes, always got something you wish you had said to them...why? like some of those things I said are going to make a difference. To clarify something, the counseling thing for 5D I did ask WAW for help in November and she didn't say or do anything. Now that I blew my chance last night, do I bring it up again?

I know the feeling. There are a million things I want to say to my H on a daily basis, but you once gave me the advice to the effect of by saying something or taking some action what will I accomplish. Until the WAS is ready to hear it probably nothing.

There are definite circumstances in which something must be said particularly when it comes to children.

We live and learn. I agree that it wasn't a major backslide just another thing that didn't work. You were able to keep the conversation pleasant.

When you asked WAW about counseling did you mention it in general or did you have a class or session in particular that you set up or brought to her attention.