PS, Thanks for sharing what it's like to struggle with an anxiety problem. I think I do tend to underestimate the impact of stress on my W. I think you and my W are more sensitive to your environments than I am. I'm glad she's being more vocal about asking for help.
We have a dialogue going about vacation planning. I made an appointment to look into the SRS (seat-belt/airbag) light in her car. She wants me to look into having a cleaning person work on the house. The refrigerator needs some repair to a shelf. I'm trying to keep up with her regarding solving problems.
I overheard her listening to "A Course in Miracles" CD last night to help her sleep.
I have to remember that I am not responsible for solving her anxiety problem, but I am for helping to make her life easier if I can. Once I've done my piece to help, than any unhappiness that lingers is her issue. I'm going to continue dancing, writing, and cultivating happiness in my life.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."