i am afraid i dont know how to set boundries without confirming her feeling of my faults. i was trying to set a boundrie by telling her to stop about the car ( in her feeble defence there was about a week of fast food bags in the passenger floor board),. its weired because she at one minute seems to see me tryingh and then acts nice. ( we have spent a lot more time together when i did call her more.) but then its like she looks to find something wrong . i dont know her side i whish i did. iall i can due is listen to what she said ( you need to let me finish my sentences, and you need to take more anisative with cleaning) as for boundrie setting as i said im scared to push so any thought on how to do this with love i would be greatfull
