Affair is over and WW is responding

[Snow White]

Ok, How bout this?

WW,

This is the hardest thing I’ve ever written.

The day we were married was the happiest day of my life. You’ve given me two wonderful sons who are the joy of my life.

I know if we put our minds to it we could have a future marriage where we are both extremely happy, both for ourselves and our kids, but I can’t do it alone. I can’t continue to live the way we are, and if you’re not willing to try, we need to separate.

This is NOT what I want, but I do have my boundaries and my personal integrity. Life is about choices, and I cannot be responsible for the choices that you make, nor can I force you to do anything.

I CAN, and WILL, however, fairly and honestly communicate to you the conditions by which I'm willing to remain in this marriage, and I WILL protect myself and our kids.

We’re at a crossroads and I’m running out of energy fighting for our marriage, and my patience is NOT infinite. I hope you will reconsider your decisions and commit to ending all contact with OM and come back and work on our marriage with me.

I want to dance with the mother of our children at their weddings. Together I want to spoil our grandkids to death, and grow old with you. But I can’t do it alone.

I do love you,

Me



I edited a little, is this a happy medium between too mushy and too harsh?