Affair is over and WW is responding

[Hope4us]

Ok Puppy, I like it, but I might not take all your suggestions. My counselor wanted me to not be too hard on her as he says WHEN this affair ends (and it will, soon according to him) that I want her to have a good feeling of me so she'll come back.

She knows her affair is selfish. She knows it's destructive for everyone involved, so me pointing it out to her seems like to me would be kind of disrespective to her. Not that she hasn't been disrespectful to me, but I just don't think I need to point it out to her.

And I had thought about putting in my conditions, but I just thought I would wait for her to show some interest first and then work through that.

If she does leave, a few weeks after she goes I'll send the letter outlining the conditions for her return. It just seems maybe a little short and sweet, end it with OM and we can work on it is best for this letter. At least IMHO.