I love you. The day we were married was the happiest day of my life. You’ve given me two wonderful sons who are the joy of my life.
I know if we put our minds to it we could have a future marriage where we are both extremely happy, both for ourselves and our kids, but I can’t do it alone. And I can’t continue to live the way we are.
I guess what I’m trying to say is that you know I still believe we could have a wonderful marriage, but I can’t do it alone and if you’re not willing to try, we need to separate. You know what I would like to do, but I can’t force you to do anything you don’t want to do. We’re at a crossroads and I’m running out of energy fighting for our marriage.
I know I can't make the decision for you, but I know I can’t continue to live with you while you’re not committed to working on our marriage and continue to see and communicate with OM.
I want to dance with the mother of our children at their weddings. Together I want to spoil our grandkids to death. I want to grow old with you. I want to have a wonderful, happy, fulfilling life with you, but I can’t do it alone.
