Thx again, HiC, I reread your post several more times, and posted in my journal about it...I think when rereading, I understand you to say that I should find counselor for 5D then ask to join for co-parenting, etc...
It wasn't to harsh...you didn't knock the PMA. You probably were not brutal enough. I think you were holding back, I did feel awful, when I put her shoes on.
Funny you said I should divert conversation. That what I wanted to do initially, but felt I had to say something about equal time and answer do I want to fight her in court. Instead diverted conversation to whatever and achieved ???
Big help to me today...refocused...thank you so much.
I did feel awful, when I put her shoes on.
