W saw C yesterday. These visits have always been followed by a noticeable coldness, but so far I have not seen any ill effects (even though I am still prone to look under every rock to find them).
Together we decided to take our house off the market yesterday. I see this in a positive light. Before it was "I can't wait until the house sells so I can get my own house." She made the comment that even if things were 1000% between us we would still have the housing and geographic issues we are dealing with. The last percentage I heard from her was that there was a 2% chance of us working out.
Still focusing on low expectations and remaining cool and somewhat aloof about the whole thing...