Hmmmmm, gambling addiction. I don't know much about addiction, but I've always heard the afflicted need to hit "rock bottom." Sounds like your H is getting pretty darn close. He can't be too proud that he has a SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASE, for frick's sake.

Keep your chin up. You're doing a great job maintaining your balance and providing some stability for your children.


M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence