Good response from H today via email:

"I do feel that in many areas we have an open dialogue. We have gotten better at talking about things like finances and the house and I think we continue to be good at being on the same page about the kids.

Obviously in other areas, I’m not there or willing to open up and I appreciate your recognition of that.

Although things between us are in flux, from what I can tell you seem to be personally happy and at peace, I commented on this to my therapist, I’m really glad for you and I think this has had a very positive impact on our relationship."


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.