Karma happening all over the place..

[Jeanette1120]

but he wants to check up with an outside person to see if his perspective on life is ok

Uhm, well did he happen to mention what his perspective on life is?

he does not want a marriage with me

I am not sure I agree. He had a choice to make a few months ago. HE CHOSE not to move forward with the divorce. If he DID NOT want it he would have ended it then. He could have figured out his perspective on life while divorced.

I chose to believe he will rebound from this eventually

Are you choosing to believe this rebound from MLC included wanting a marriage/relationship with you?

Either way Holly, you've always made the right choices in how you handled your situation.