I don't know. I'm not unwilling to work with either of them, but I'm not gung-ho either. I'm scared. I guess. I'm scared that it's going to push him to the point where he feels it is just too difficult to fix this. And I know that just reinforces my need to further detach. But it's not like I'm scared, can't breath scared, it's more like I'm scared, we kinda have a good thing going right now and I'd be disappointed to lose that. I don't want to harp on it with him - I don't want him to feel as if I'm nagging him. I know DBing is anti all of that and I know that the coaching I'd get wouldn't be about that - I just don't want to upset the apple cart. I'm happy with where we are as a couple - minus the sex thing. And then of course there's the money involved. We're tight at the moment...and of course this post just sounds like one big excuse and no real valid reasons. sigh.
