I am deeply upset with W for her petty, shallow behavior. I am stunned that she would rather expressly and surely poison her S's relationship and trust with their father rather than have some wildly off-chance and relatively unlikely event possibly happen. W is becoming more and more paranoid and delusional.
I am now thinking it will be a blessing in disguise to no longer have her in my life on a daily basis.
So sorry you are going through this!!! I have sometimes thought maybe your W has mental problems or something from some of the behaviors you describe. She sounds like she needs maybe therapy & medication or something like that! I think with that kind of behavior, you're probably right that not having her in your life will be a blessing. (My sitch is kind of like that as well). Or at least until she gets therapy/meds or whatever...I have to believe that if she tries to bring up any problems re: custody that it sounds like it will be apparent your wife is paranoid & trying to cause problems, etc. Hopefully your lawyer can give you advice about all that I guess! Again, sorry to hear that you are going through this!!! I think we all deserve better!!! :)Karen
I have sometimes thought maybe your W has mental problems or something from some of the behaviors you describe. She sounds like she needs maybe therapy & medication or something like that! I think with that kind of behavior, you're probably right that not having her in your life will be a blessing. (My sitch is kind of like that as well). Or at least until she gets therapy/meds or whatever...I have to believe that if she tries to bring up any problems re: custody that it sounds like it will be apparent your wife is paranoid & trying to cause problems, etc. Hopefully your lawyer can give you advice about all that I guess! Again, sorry to hear that you are going through this!!! I think we all deserve better!!! :)Karen