Affair is over and WW is responding

[Hope4us]

Comments Please. This is the letter I'm going to give WW.


WW, This is the hardest thing I’ve ever written.

I love you. I’ve always loved you. The day we were married was the happiest day of my life. You’ve given me two wonderful sons who are the joy of my life. That and being able to call you my wife.

I know if we put our minds to it we could have a future marriage where we are both extremely happy, both for ourselves and our kids, but I can’t do it alone. And I can’t continue to live the way we are.

I understand right now you don’t have feelings for me. I understand there are some things that bother you about me. But they are things that I know are fixable, if we would work on them. And I know if we would work together on those things, we could both be happy in the future.

I guess what I’m trying to say is that you know I still believe we could have a wonderful marriage, but I can’t do it alone and if you’re not willing to try, we need to separate. You know what I would like to do, but I can’t force you to do anything you don’t want to do.

I apologize for any hurt I’ve caused you and if I’ve given you conflicting signals recently. The pain of knowing that you’re giving yourself to another person is hard for me to handle. I don’t want to lose the love I have for you. But if we continue to be together while you’re still involved with OM, I will.

I know I can’t make your decisions for you and you have to do what you feel is right, but I know I can’t continue to live with you while you’re not committed to working on our marriage and continue to see and communicate with OM.

I want to dance with the mother of our children at their weddings. Together I want to spoil our grandkids to death. I want to grow old with you. I want to have a wonderful, happy, fulfilling life with you until death do us part.

I love you,

Hope4Us


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