Refuse To Lose, Part VI

[AliSuddenly]

Hey RTL...so what present are you buying your daughter? God your W is so controlling and BITTER. I cant believe it. I'm so sorry its no wonder you feel a bit depressed, it does sound very stressful what you are being hit with daily. I'd be so tempted to refute the things she says, to argue back, to say, I am very sad to hear you say these things and taht this is your interpreation, I had no idea you were so angry/sad/hurt aggrieved whatever fits.

So thats why she moved there then...because thats where he lives? So does that mean you are D her on grounds of adultery? I would have thiught that goes in your favour doesnt it? Or is she D you on irreconcilable differences, or is it different in the US?

I'm sorry you are having such a hard time, I cant believe how mean your W is. And to send you an email sayign "and these rules are permanenet" is juts NUTS! She left you and is with an OM, does she expect you to come up and kiss her or something? Shes insane. It must be so hard to reconcile all of this with the woman that you shared your life with and loved. She has really turned on yuo. I think a letter is a good idea. but yes, speak to the DB coach about it.

Ali x
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Me: 37 BF: 34
T: 9 years
IDLYA: 2 Nov 07
Own flat: 26 Jan 08
Depression confirmed: 4 Mar
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