Oh, I don't think I mentioned how the job idea came about. H and I were getting along well this past week & weekend & had a few friendly emails and then he sent me a snippy email in which he was saying are you looking into a job after the play? He believes I don't want to work or am scared to work or something which I am not. I believe he sent that trying to pick a fight like he usually tries to when we are getting along well (I think to help justify his affair & help alleviate his guilt.)
But I think I probably surprised H b/c instead of fighting with him I emailed back that I thought that would be a good idea! Now he says he's thinking about me having a job (apparently he's not thrilled about it in reality as D8 might have to go into some part-time daycare or whatever) so kind of proof I think he was just trying to pick a fight with me! But I told him my C says it's a good idea so he probably will be OK with it then. Karen
Karen
