I have detached. We are still living under the same roof on paper but she has basically moved out to the apartment complex where all her friends live. When we were both home, the only conversation was about our S.
The only reason I have held on to the house is because she has lived in the apartment complex for the last 4 months and even if I did move out, her behavior would not change. I even think the OM, who owrks nearby, would simply move in. I have made mention to my lawyer that the house truly is not high on my priority list and that the only reason that I wanted to stay in it was to keep some continuity for our S. Since he has slept there once in the last 3 weeks, it really does not matter.
I have been staying positive, staying around good people, and even looking at the possibility of dating again. The only thing that is really a burden right now is the fact that I have not seen our S. She has let me see him this week but we go to court next week and she wants to show that she is trying to work with me.
We will see how it turns out...
Me=29 WAW=25 S=2 "I need a break" = 6/07 Filed = 12/07
