Ringing the doorbell may be a good sign that he is "finally" respecting your earlier wishes and feels confident in doing so with out critical reprise.
As far as the other stuff, I would not sweat it. Sometimes we are all a little off. I am right now for sure with the massive stress that I am under at work. W has even commented a little that I have been very grumpy lately....

Maybe if I could get my darn TV fixed and watch some baseball I would be a little more calm....


Me: 33 jacka** whom lied, stole, cheated, and basically treated DW like crap for years
DW: 29 kind soul who gave too much to me over the relationship

S7
S4

M: 7yrs
Bomb: 10/19
Seperated: 10/24

The worst reconciliation is better than the best divorce