Affair is over and WW is responding

[Hope4us]

Puppy, Exactly. Point out that I know we can have a future together where both of us are extremely happy in our marriage, etc, but state that while I would love for that to be the case, I can't continue as we are while she's involved with OM.

Kind of like setting loving boundaries.

I've never read your story. Did you have to go through a separation before reconciling?

Edited to add: I'd appreciate your comments on my letter when I post it either this afternoon or tomorrow morning.