well the wife stopped by today..

[cat03]

ripping a person apart like that is nothing short of cruel, harping you for your car having some stuff on the floor?? COME ON!! she has BIG issues, and you are the source of her unhappiness Marcum, what she is doing is nothing short of emotional abusive!! you did nothing wrong, nothing!!! you are dealing with a mad woman who's making you second guess your every move, honestly, perhaps moving out was the best favor she ever did to you, can you imagen living in that kind of hell for the next decades? that's no life.

I know you want her back badly, but what's she is doing to you has no name, do you really want a woman like that as your life partner?? while my H was away back in 05 I tried my best to be pleasant and a good W for the few mins he'd hang with us, but I tell you, had he harp on me about the house he no longer lived in in any way or b*tch if I was nice enough to give him a ride somewhere I'd kick his arse out our my home/car.

She is destroying you as a person, I say go dark, this is abuse at its worse, remember the DB cheeseless tunnels? obviously what you are doing isnt' working (allowing her to act like that to her), she keeps on with the harping nagging and tearing down of your soul.

If someone, ANYone is going to make me doubt that I'm a good whole healthy person then I'd walk away from that person. I'm a package deal, I have done pleanty of 180s and made myself a better person, am i ever going to be perfect? no, no one can, but I am who I am, whoever wants to share my life must accept me mistakes and all.
Please love yourself a little and set some boundaries, or next week it will be another thing and the following more of the same.