WAW...now the LBS Part 2

[HOPEFULinCALI]

jmw,

Thanks for stopping by =)

Since last Friday I have only spoken to H once and he wasn't much of a conversationalist, but he has never been a big phone talker. I took into account that he hasn't had much sleep lately with the pain from his knee amongst other issues after surgery and that he is just plain in pain and uncomfortable.

I am getting better at detaching myself from his actions and words. I find it sad really that he is willing to give up his marriage in order to maintain the world of lies that he has created. My H is an intelligent guy, but doesn't seem to have the street smarts to know how to get his marriage back and save face with his friends and family. I wish I could tell him but that he will have to figure out on his own. Hopefully I will be there when he does, but if not that is the risk he takes.

I'll swing by your journal shortly.