Actually, he wants to go the divorce route again. He doesn't have feeling, but he wants to check up with an outside person to see if his perspective on life is ok. I did mention depression.
So......
he does not want a marriage with me.
I chose to believe he will rebound from this eventually.
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.