NikB #26 (tentatively moving to Piecing, again)

[NikB]

Hi again - I'm oh so tentatively posting over here in Piecing agian. I know many of you already and will get to know the others soon, I am sure. <waving>

I forget, do you do the drink thing over here? If so lemme know what to pour for ya.

Here's a link to my prior thread over in the Separated forum:
NikB #25

jak and Michelle - thanks for your posts!

jak
I think "feel the fear and do it anyway" should be my personal motto. I let fear stop me from SO many things.

As a very very quick recap beyond what's in my signature - basically the latest is that H has not officially recommitted, but his behavior has indicated lately that he is committed or at least trying to be. I am trying to do the same.

At this very moment - I am working on my courage to talk to him about a pic I found completely by accident on his new phone. Many more details on the last 2 pages of my prior thread, but basically I found a pic of H and OW skiing - she texted it to him on his new phone. At first I freaked out but then realized the pic is at least 4-6 weeks old (forget when he last went skiing but it's been awhile). And it could have been as far back as last Nov., when we were talking sep.

So... I need to talk to him about it and really it's time for some sort of R talk just to see where we're both at, but I keep chickening out. Working on that courage as we speak.

I've been here before and know just how tough this Piecing thing is. Sure hope I/we can do better at it this time around.