I am so out of it, I never watched Friends... !! I may be the last person on the face of this sweet earth who does not know who Joey Tribbani is.

QUESTION:

OK guys, if I were to call B in the next few days, without using an excuse,

1) what do I say? "Hello, I'm just calling to say hi and see how you're doing?"

2) the normal way I show someone I care is by asking questions about them and their life. I feel weird doing this with my B b/c I don't want him to think I am prying or trying to drag things out. Should I brainstorm a list of neutral friendly questions about neutral friendly topics to use to demonstrate that I care? like, how is your family doing, how are your parents, how are your brothers, what is the weather like in NYC right now, what other concerts have you been playing lately, do you fantasize about me when you fall asleep (JUST KIDDING) !!! This feels so weird, b/c as soon as I met him we started dating and then we were together, so it is very strange to be playing the "casual friend" role right now.


((((HUGS))))
T

Last edited by transformer; 04/02/08 02:11 PM.