I am not doing anything to make myself happy, but on the good side I am not just lying around being miserable! I have lots of work to do!!!
Ok Girlfriend, take your time and grieve. That's ok, but don't take too long. Life awaits you and it's still going on. Take it from me. There is a LOT of happiness ahead of you. Right now it's hard to imagine, but you will feel so differently 6 months from now and even more of a difference 1 year from now. Heck, you'll even look back with a whole different perspective on your marriage and what really was. Truth is, we tend to only remember the happy times when someone is threatening to take our security blanket away from us.
Anyway, I've thought of you a lot lately and I'll be sitting back cheering you on!
